Pray that your hearts will be open to the love that Jesus Christ brings to each of us. The following are a couple of illustrations I came across. One is from C.S. Lewis’s writings and the other is relayed by Pastor J. Allan Petersen:
In his book Mere Christianity, C.S. Lewis wrote, “Do not waste your time bothering whether you ‘love’ your neighbor act as if you did. As soon as we do this, we find one of the great secrets. When you are behaving as if you loved someone, you will presently come to love him. If you injure someone you dislike, you will find yourself disliking him more. If you do him a good turn, you will find yourself disliking him less.”
Newspaper columnist and minister George Crane tells of a wife who came into his office full of hatred toward her husband. “I do not only want to get rid of him, I want to get even. Before I divorce him, I want to hurt him as much as he has me.” Dr. Crane suggested an ingenious plan “Go home and act as if you really love your husband. Tell him how much he means to you. Praise him for every decent trait. Go out of your way to be as kind, considerate, and generous as possible. Spare no efforts to please him, to enjoy him. Make him believe you love him. After you’ve convinced him of your undying love and that you cannot live without him, then drop the bomb. Tell him that you’re getting a divorce. That will really hurt him.” With revenge in her eyes, she smiled and exclaimed, “Beautiful, beautiful. Will he ever be surprised!” And she did it with enthusiasm. Acting “as if.” For two months she showed love, kindness, listening, giving, reinforcing, sharing. When she didn’t return, Crane called. “Are you ready now to go through with the divorce?” ”Divorce?” she exclaimed. “Never! I discovered I really do love him.” Her actions had changed her feelings. Motion resulted in emotion. The ability to love is established not so much by fervent promise as often repeated deeds.
When we remove our natural tendencies to dislike, be hurt, be jealous and retaliate we truly are being the people Jesus Christ calls us to be.
Pastor Randy
January 22, 2013 at 5:42 pm |
Motion results in emotion. I love it. May I quote you? My brother once said much the same thing when he told me ” E-Motion as in Energy in motion, use your energy to change your own feelings” And you both are absolutely correct. Thank you for your inspiring messages.Roxanne Whiteley Date: Tue, 22 Jan 2013 15:54:55 +0000 To: onlyrox@hotmail.com
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